Understanding women and picking up on their subtle and in some cases almost stealth mode flirting is quite a task, even for the most experienced among us. If you like a girl, you stare at her constantly, and you make it very clear that you’re interested. But they, omg, they can be so tough to read. If you don’t know what signs you should be looking for, you can find yourself shooting in the dark for a long time.
Now, I’m not saying that I’m going to teach you how to be a flirting master that always, undeniably, knows a girl is interested. But I will give you some of the most obvious signs a girl might be showing when she likes you.
You are probably familiar with body language, which is one of the signs she’s into you.
You don’t have to be an expert, though.
All you need to do is to look for some simple cues she will most definitely express if she finds you attractive.
If she’s looking you in the eyes, and she’s facing you directly, well my friend, lucky you.
If, on the other hand, you see her arms crossed when you talk to her, it’s probably bad news.
Also, pay attention to her posture. If she is leaning against you it’s also a bad sign. But if she’s leaning towards you, facing you directly, her arms aren’t crossed and she’s looking you directly in the eyes, well what more can you ask for?
Girls tend to get very self-aware when flirting. So, don’t be surprised if she starts making micro-adjustments.
If she starts checking her makeup, correcting her hair or anything of that nature, it’s a sign she wants to look good. And why may she want such a thing? Because she likes you, of course.
So, another great sign to look for the next time you go beast mode.
It’s no secret that women love funny men.
It’s also no secret that women laugh at stupid jokes if a hot guy tells them. So, if she’s giggling while you talk, you’re doing great. You can even be sneaky and test her. Tel her a stupid joke on purpose. If she laughs, well, put some ChapStick on your lips. Make those bad boys soft and smooth, you might be kissing someone very soon.
Texting can say a lot about how someone perceives you.
When you like someone you really enjoy texting them. And when you enjoy texting someone, the one thing you never do is giving short answers, like you don’t care.
Girls are the same. When they like you, they will be very happy to reply to your texts and even text you first. They like you, they want to know more about you.
It’s another one to look for.
Is she happy to spend time with you, or is she spending time with you only when she has nothing else to do?
A girl that likes you will clear her schedule to hang out with you. Unless, of course, she has to work or do some other important things.
But, if she’d rather take her little cousin to the mall, well, don’t waste your time, my friend. Move on.
Start paying attention. Become more observant.
It’s not an exact science, and not every woman flirts the same way. It’s quite the opposite actually, but getting familiar with some of the most overt hints is the best starting point.