Dating’s hard. Everyone who’s tried to date in the 21st century knows that dating’s not a stroll in the park. It can be quite daunting and it’s no secret, many people really struggle when it comes to having healthy and satisfying relationships. Why is that so? Well, that’s the question for the ages.
Provided that there’s absolutely no chance in hell that we’ll ever be able to understand exactly why so many people struggle when it comes to dating, there’s nothing we can do about the dating disadvantages people in the modern age experience, and there’s nothing we can do about the fact that not everyone we encounter will like us.
There is, however, a lot we can do about how easy we make it for others to enjoy our company, and that’s why I’m about to suggest a slightly different approach to the whole “why is dating so hard” problem.
Are you ready?
Try to become the best possible version of yourself you can possibly be, and the right people will come.
When one embarks on a journey of becoming their best possible version, developing a clear understanding of what not to do can be as important as learning what they should be doing.
Turning a blind eye to our own problems and issues can’t really be classified as backbreaking, putting in constant effort towards solving them, on the other hand, undoubtedly can.
Being bold enough to tackle your own weaknesses isn’t only a characteristic of a strong man, but also of an extremely irresistible one.
And that’s exactly why the goal of today’s post is to cover some major traits women hate in men, to give you valuable insight into behavior patterns you can look for, and start working towards slowly but surely eliminating them.
WOMEN HATE DISHONESTY
No matter how often you might have seen dishonest, perfidious men get their way, I can guarantee you, it’s only a facade. People who value themselves will never be anything but revolted by being deceived, and anyone who wishes to attract people with a healthy outlook on life should adopt a different strategy. A more wholesome, inclusive one.
And because I know that you’re a high-value man, and you want to attract a high-value partner, I’d strongly suggest that you continue walking the path of honesty and integrity, and like-minded people will automatically be attracted into your life.
If you ever notice any sign of deceitfulness, don’t let it go by. Correct yourself gracefully and continue the journey of a gentleman with integrity.
WOMEN HATE NEEDINESS
Women are attracted to men who exude abundance, to men who walk through life with the attitude that says “I am perfectly able to acquire everything I need”. Men like that are courageous, their words and actions aren’t guided by fear of lack, but rather by the motivation to explore. They are confident, and they make women feel safe and protected.
One thing that will kill any interest is when a man acts the complete opposite.
That’s why no woman in the entire world thinks neediness is sexy. Because a needy man is the exact opposite of everything a woman wants in her partner.
Neediness reeks of lack. Why would a person who knows their value feel the need to be needy? Only someone who thinks they’re not good enough has the compulsive need to always feel validated, and that’s the exact opposite of confidence. And the exact opposite of a self-assured man who stands in his power that women want.
WOMEN WANT RELIABLE MEN
Saying you’ll do something and then not following through is, to put it bluntly, disrespectful. Not respecting people, wasting their time and energy, putting them in awkward situations because you couldn’t be bothered to do what you said you’d do is extremely rude.
No wonder women hate unreliable men.
Women want to be able to rely on their men for a lot more than just being on time. They want a partner who does what he says he’ll do, who follows through with his promises, who keeps his word.
Being a man she can trust and rely on is the new sexy.
WOMEN HATE INDECISIVENESS
Women really want you to be able to make decisions.
The very last thing a woman wants is to make decisions for both her and her indecisive boyfriend.
A woman wants her man to be a man and lead. That doesn’t mean she needs you to tell her what she should and shouldn’t do. But it means that you should provide options and solutions. It’s your role as a man to take the first step and, unless she really doesn’t want to, she’ll follow you.
Given the fact that decision-making is a masculine trait (not the same as the male gender), it shouldn’t come as a surprise why it’s easier for men to make decisions.
Women are perfectly capable of making decisions on their own, but if they’re confident that their man will make just as good, or a better decision, they’ll be happy to let him do that.
It allows her to be more relaxed and less stressed out, it allows you to step into your masculine power, she thinks you’re an amazing man able to make her feel safe and satisfied, you feel like your balls are made of steel.
Everyone’s happy.
WOMEN HATE SELF-CENTERED MEN
In case you haven’t heard already, women love men who know how to listen.
As a matter of fact, being a good listener is on almost every single “WHAT WOMEN WANT IN A MAN” list on the internet. Everybody and their grandma knows that not paying attention to what your woman says is one of the cheapest ways to get a vasectomy. But do you want one?
Self-centeredness, just keeping bragging and bragging, and constantly forcing the conversation in the direction of glorifying yourself, is one of the pettiest things any man can do.
The very existence of such a desperate need for validation completely wipes out the aura of a strong, confident man all women feel drawn to.
The only thing left after a conversation with a self-centered person is the relief that it’s finally over.
Do not be that man. Don’t talk only about yourself and your own achievements. Take interest in the person in front of you. It won’t go unnoticed.
TAKEAWAY
Dating isn’t easy, but given the fact that human beings are social creatures, we really have no other option than diving into the world of human contact, no matter how much we prefer the cozy warmth underneath our blankets. Making sure to work on yourself, identifying your flaws, and working towards bettering yourself is one the best ways to make it really easy for other people to find spending time with you more enjoyable. Learning these 5 traits women hate and eliminating them is one of the most effective ways to do so.