Being a gentleman never goes out of style. And much like any other craft, gentlemanism requires some tools. Some essentials without which your gentleman game just can’t be on point. Having things just for the sake of having them is both silly and impractical, but learning what are some essential things every man should own, well that’s pure wisdom. Strategically acquiring some items and tools that are guaranteed to improve the quality of your life is just the way to go.
Tailored Suit
If we have to single out one thing that’s the very personification of a gentleman, one thing that among all other things every man should own, that thing would definitely be a suit. All throughout recent history, wearing a suit was the only thing appropriate for a man to wear on any formal occasion. Not only that, a lot of men used to wear one regularly, that’s why you can still see a lot of grandpas wearing suits every day.
The widespread acceptance of business casual style as appropriate for most professional occasions has made wearing a suit an option, but even though they’re not absolutely required, they’re still the best option for every man who wants to leave a good impression.
Not being a requirement anymore gave them a new role in the gentleman’s universe. A suit is now becoming a statement.
Wearing a suit, even though business casual is becoming more and more accepted, shows that you mean business. It shows that you take your job seriously, that you wish to present yourself as a man of style and integrity. It shows that you value the health of your masculinity and that you’re not afraid to make a statement.
And that, my friend, is why every man needs at least one well-fitting, tailored suit.
Nice Watch
Watches are not only the most important accessory a man can wear, they send more subliminal messages than Superbowl commercials. A watch on your wrist makes a statement of power, conscientiousness, it shows that your time is valuable. Wearing a watch is the simplest way to elevate your style, and if you’re a regular watch wearer, then, I can confidently say that you, my friend are one stylish mf. If you’re not, however, get one ASAP. Because you can’t be a stylish SOB without a watch. Facts.
Signature Fragrance
When a man smells amazing, he enters a whole other dimension of sexiness. You’ve probably witnessed the excitement people feel when they catch a whiff of someone’s amazing cologne. This is especially true for women. They absolutely love when a guy smells good, and they aren’t afraid to show their appreciation. So, It really goes without saying that a man who understands the importance of a good cologne is a man that stands out.
Pair of Leather Boots
Did you know that one of the first things people notice about you is what shoes you’re wearing? And the style, the color or the price tag are not even that important. The most important thing is the condition of the shoes you’re wearing. But if you ask me, why wear something meh, when you can go for the most stylish shoe option a man can possibly choose. Yes, I believe that leather boots are the most badass, most fashionable, and the most unique shoe option for men that’s available. If you want to get some ideas you can read the post I wrote about essential shoes for men where I cover a few boot options.
Black Leather Jacket
The only real question a man should ask when it comes to leather jackets is ‘Is one leather jacket enough?’ The fact that you need at least one is axiomatic. I just don’t see how you can be a badass without a leather jacket.
Sunglasses
Sunglasses are a must-have in every modern gent’s wardrobe. This is one of the most essential pieces of accessory, and nor having a decent pair of shades, is in terms of man’s style considered a sacrilege. Ask anyone.
But you already know that because you’re one sexy gent. Otherwise, You would’ve lost interest in my rambling a long time ago.
High-Quality Leather Belt
Wearing a suit without a nice belt is like driving a Lambo on a secondhand, budget set of tires. You just don’t do it. Belts aren’t that expensive anyway. All you really need is one or two of them to be covered for almost every occasion.
Leather Wallet
Let’s take a quick quiz…
Imagine this, you’re on a date, everything goes well, you had fun, you were vibin’ the entire evening. The bill comes, you take out your old trifold, velcro wallet and say “Should we split the bill?” Question: Do you deserve 1 or 2 slaps of awakening?
If you said two, CHAA CHIIIIIIING…Correct.
You should only split the bill if your date absolutely insists, and you should never wear a lousy wallet.
Pair of Cufflinks
Now, this is some advanced stuff. Cuffs aren’t something most guys tend to reach for when they buy accessories, but it’s probably one of the best cherries you can add on top of every style cake. Not a lot of guys wear them and their decorative potential’s something not easily matched.
Weekend bag
Even though traveling isn’t something that common these days, the invisible enemy is bound to allow us to get back to our normal, day to day lives eventually. When that happens, when we’re finally allowed to travel without any restrictions, traveling bags are going to be used more than ever. And when that day comes, you’ll wanna have a good one. It’s absolutely unacceptable for a stylish modern gent to travel with an old, dirty, raggedy bag. Please don’t do that. Buy a good travel bag, and travel with style.
Pocket Square
No other men’s style accessory is as underutilized as a pocket square. A lot of men just don’t use them, and that gives them even more power. Not only will they make your outfit look more polished, but they also add a cool uniqueness factor.
Decent Umbrella
No woman no date…a man without a decent umbrella to protect you from the surprising weather abnormalities.
Toiletry Bag
Every man should have a toiletry bag. For every occasion you’re not sleeping in your bed, you’ll want to have some essential grooming and hygiene tools handy. Stuff like a toothbrush, a comb, beard oil, hair clay, a cologne, etc. You really should try your best to always look the best that you possibly can. It’s easier done in the comfort of your own bathroom, but this way, when you hit the road, you can carry some essentials with you.
Skincare Routine
How old are you?
If you’re older than 20 then it’s absolutely irrelevant for the sake of this argument. No matter how old you are, you should’ve already started taking care of your skin. If you want to keep that youthful look, and if you want to make sure you look good even when you’ve entered the lively autumn of your earthly journey, start taking care of your skin.
Savings Account
“Do not save what is left after spending; instead spend what is left after saving.”
― Warren Buffett
Investment Portfolio
Instead of working for money, start making money work for you. Of course, this isn’t something that’ll happen overnight, but if you start by educating yourself about investing, and understand why it’s detrimental to the financial freedom we all so strongly desire, you’ll be one step closer.
A Few Jokes Up Your Sleeve
Everyone likes people who can make them laugh.
An Interesting Hobby
How you spend your free time says a lot about you. Having an interesting hobby, something you’re really passionate about is a fantastic way to make your days more interesting. Spending your free time doing things that make you happy is not only a fantastic way to spend your time, but it’s also a great way to recharge your energy.
Book Collection
Let’s put it this way. Every man should have a book that he’s currently reading at any given point in his life. If someone asks you: “What book are you currently reading?” you should have an answer. If they ask you the same question two months later and your answer is still the same, you’re just fooling yourself. Read more. It’s been said a long time ago that he secrets of the ages are locked up in books.
A Collection of Passport Stamps
The more places you see and the more cultures you experience the broader your view of life is. You’ll get to know a lot about different countries and cultures, you’ll make a lot of interesting friends.
Visiting new and exciting places doesn’t only make you more interesting, but it also births a plethora of fantastic experiences that’ll stay with you forever.
A dog
Having a furry friend who’s always happy to see you, and who loves you unconditionally is a pretty amazing thing.
Yoga Mat
A modern man doesn’t only take care of his body. He doesn’t only go to the gym and tries to look as good as he can. A modern man takes care of his mind and his soul. He doesn’t let the ups and downs of everyday life interfere with his inner wellbeing. Every modern man understands that feeling great starts on the inside. And that’s why he integrates spiritual practices into his daily life.
House Plants
Ok, I love house plants, and I’ll try not to let my house plant hoarding tendency influence my professional objectivity, but I honestly think that every home needs at least one houseplant per room. They’re really inexpensive, and if you don’t have the time or you simply don’t want to spend much time taking care of them, here’s a list of houseplants that are nearly impossible to kill.
They’ll bring some life into your living space, they’ll filter the air, and they will make your space feel cozier. And you’ll only have to give them a drink once or twice in a while.
Motorcycle
Why is a bike on the list of things every man should own, you might ask. Well, this is purely optional, but tbh the only answer I’ve got for you is to be freaking cool.
Swiss Army Knife
There’s not a tool more versatile than a swiss army knife. You’re in the woods and you need a knife, sure. You need a spoon, no problem. Your girlfriend’s crotch area has an ingrown hair problem, it’s got the world’s tiniest tweezers. It’s impossible to find a pedicure salon while you’re camping, hah, just use the nail file. I’m seriously wondering whether there’s a single problem that Swiss army knife’s inventor hasn’t thought of.
Home Bar
You absolutely don’t have to go and buy 20 bottles for your home bar. All you need is to be able to make a few simple cocktails, because, let’s face it, everyone wants to be a good host. And serving cocktails is one of the very best ways to impress your guests.
Condoms
A true gentleman must be ready to handle surprising situations. To put it simply, the last thing you want is to not have condoms when you need them.
Appropriate Glassware
A few bottles of liquor don’t deserve to be called a home bar until you pair them with appropriate glassware. Only then can you be ready to enjoy sipping on your favorite drink the way it’s supposed to be enjoyed.
Espresso Machine
Of course, there are a lot of cheaper and easier options to have your daily fix of caffeine, but espresso is by far the fanciest one. If you really want to have a killer morning routine, if you want to start your days as a champion, then having a proper cup of coffee is a must. Making espresso for yourself (or a loved one) is not only the best way to start the day, but it’s also a sign of appreciation. It shows that you care enough to put some extra effort into it.
A Quality Pen
Not having a decent pen is just lame. Look around, if you only have free promotional pens it’s time to buy a new one. You don’t have to spend hundreds of dollars, you can literally find a decent pen on Amazon for like under 20$.
Scented Candles
Some independent researchers suggest that the man’s ability to create a romantic atmosphere and the number of women’s orgasms are in direct correlation.
Quality Cooking Utensils
I don’t know what it is, but a man who knows his way around a kitchen seems to be irresistible to the opposite sex. So, it should come as no surprise why spending some time honing your cooking skills and investing in some quality cooking utensils should be on the list of priorities in every man’s life.
Mirrorless Camera
You might be thinking, why on Earth would I spend hundreds of dollars on a camera, when I have a great camera on my iPhone? Well, even though that’s a perfectly legitimate question, I have to ask, how often do you use your back camera compared to the front one?
Having a camera, a separate gadget dedicated to taking photos will make you take more images of things that aren’t your face or the plate of food. Plus if you have an eye for photography, you can make some good money on the side.
A Board Game
Drinkopoly… it’s like Monopoly, with booze. Does it get better than that?
High-quality sheets
The best piece of equipment for your bachelor pad is hands down a set of high-quality sheets. Nothing has the power to instantly kill the moment like dirty sheets. Women hate dirty sheets, and they’re absolutely right. Not changing your sheets is just nasty. Invest some money in nice bedsheets, and don’t forget to change them every 10 days or so.
Hair Trimmer
There’s absolutely no excuse for looking like a hairy woodland creature. There’s no shame in being hairy, none at all. But not taking care of yourself and looking sloppy and unkempt, well that’s just unacceptable. Invest in a good hair trimmer, and make sure that you always look neat. Nobody likes people who neglect their looks.
Coffee Grinder
No matter which method of brewing your morning cup of joe you go for, the last thing you want to use is coffee that’s been ground god knows when.
Any coffee lover worth his salt never accepts anything less than a cup of freshly ground coffee. If you’ve never tried it, but you love coffee, trust me… There’s nothing like the smell of freshly ground coffee in the morning.
Massage Oil
There’s nothing more rewarding than being able to give a woman a massage. I’m not talking about a 5-minute shoulder rub to butt massage transition. I’m talking about a proper massage. One that’s unselfish and not concentrated on getting her panties off as soon as possible. Give your partner a proper massage. Take your time, put your sexual needs aside and make it all about them. I guarantee, it will be appreciated.
Essential Kit In The Car Trunk
If you want to learn more about some essential things you should keep in your car, check out this article.
A Wine Cooler
A few bottles of nice wine is something that every man should have in his home. But, the wine’s a delicate drink, it requires special conditions, and that’s where wine coolers come in. They allow you to store your bottles properly and keep them at the optimal temperature. You wouldn’t want your expensive wine to go bad, would you?
